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Dear Protected,

Let me tell you first how lucky you are to have such a loving mother. I have to say I understand your mother but it doesn’t mean I don’t understand you. I am not in the position to tell whether your mom is wrong or right, but one thing I can be sure and I know you know it better than I do, that your mom loves you so much and she wants what’s best for you. Be patient child, time will come and you’ll be on your own and you will realize how right your mother has been. But for now, it would be best to do what your mother thinks is best..

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Dear Lonesome,

What you have in mind is a very noble thing to do. I’m ALL FOR THAT, and I would pray that you be given the courage to bear any difficulty the outcome of your decision might bring. Good luck, girl! May the generosity of your heart be repaid with more blessings.. GOB bless you!

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Dear Modern Day Martyr,

Indeed you are.. I know very few people who would do that. I’m not even sure if I, myself, would do that. Maybe you did it for your children, but you didn’t mention it in your letter. So, I assume that you did it for yourself, because you love your husband and you don’t want him gone.

It’s ok, girl. You chose to have him back because that’s what you want and that’s what will make you happy. Good luck and I hope there are more people with forgiving hearts such as yours..

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Dear Jealous Ex,

I guess I have an idea why you feel that way. But it has nothing to do with how you feel about your ex-boyfriend. There are people who want everything and everybody for themselves. As children, they want all the toys not because they enjoy playing with them, but because they don’t want other children to enjoy them. I guess, in a way you are like one of those people. You really don’t want your ex-boyfriend back, but it hurts you to see other woman happy with him.

Another thing, maybe it’s true that your ex’s wife is so NOT-LIKE-YOU, and maybe that is the exact reason why he married her in the first place. I could be wrong you know, but think about it.. But with regards to the pain you feel when you see them, the only thing you could do about it is to be happy for your ex, after all, you still care about him as a friend.

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Fat Pam,

It is somehow sad that you are starting to feel that way. Though I don’t need to tell you that not all ‘biggies’ are loveless and not all thin girls are romantically involved, I will tell you just the same.

Maybe the size of your body is not the real issue here. You may have limited exposure to the opposite sex because of your schedule, so, you have to modify your lifestyle. Maybe you don’t need to lose weight. But if losing weight will make you feel happier, then, give it a try. If you are thinking that it is a desperate way to find love, however, well, I doubt that it will work positively on you.

There may be someone out there for you or there may be not. Nevertheless, don’t lose faith in love. It is the greatest gift from GOD..

Practical,

I understand your reason for wanting to break up with your long-steady boyfriend. I would do the same thing if I were you. I would break up with him, but I will tell him why.. He deserves to know your reason. Who knows, maybe it will do him good..

Dear Loveless,

Let me congratulate you first for having the courage and strength to make things right. The fact that you were able to do what you did.. that you were able to turn your back on something because you knew it wasn’t right means you are a good person.. only a victim of your own weakness.

Don’t despair, girl..  I do believe there is someone out there for you. But take your time. Make sure that you are ready for a new relationship before you enter a new one.

Just don’t lose faith in love. Love comes to those who believe it, as the song goes… and that’s the way it is.. (-Celine Dion)..

Dear Playful,

First of all, man is a social animal creature, we don’t live alone but rather we belong to a society, therefore, we couldn’t stop other people from forming their own opinion of us the same way they couldn’t stop us from forming our opinion of them. People would only leave you alone when you are dead no longer exist, but sometimes, even death couldn’t stop people from talking about others, take Elvis Presley and Marilyn Monroe for instance.

Now, about your being playful, as long as you’re not playing around with other people’s feelings, I think there’s nothing wrong about that except in cases wherein you inflict pain to another person either intentionally or unintentionally.

But I regret to say I couldn’t accept the phrase ‘fall in and out of love easily,’ because that’s not what I believe love to be. Love, for me, is simply looking at the person and imagining yourself with him until senior citizenship days. Love is not merely enjoying his company but keeping him company even if he’s not enjoyable to be with.

Love is SO MUCH MORE than getting involved and getting out when things don’t work out. Love is trying everything to make things work out because that’s better than not getting involved at all.

Maybe you haven’t been there yet. Maybe you haven’t met HIM yet, because if you did, chances are.. you’re still with him at the time of your letter..

Dear Grumpy,

I guess you have a serious problem. Being grumpy is bad enough, feeling comfortable being grumpy is even worse. Maybe you should consider some time for introspection. Try to determine the reason for your unhappiness because I think that’s the reason for all of this. Deep inside you are unhappy and somehow you project your unhappiness to other people to make them feel the way you do..

Think about it and then start from there..

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Dear Imprisoned,

That’s exactly the same question I asked myself several years back. I never did find out why, though I have a wild guess..

It is difficult to let go because at the back of our minds, we really wouldn’t like to, it’s as if by ‘holding on’ we can turn back the time to reclaim that which we lost..